A blind date

Is ‘blind date’ still happening at this era?
I thought it does not happen anymore but it did happen to me

My mum arranged a ‘blind date’ without even telling me.
That is so unfair. I met with the guy called Lan.

i did not even know it was a blind date...

The first day, when I first see him, he wasn’t happy.

But end up, we interact well. We talked most about school stuff.

i talked to him liked how i talk to other people...

jus being normal around him..

But a few days after tat, I realize my mum is trying to put me and him together.
Lan's dad is also trying to make us together.

My mum keep telling me “I think he likes you..”
Which I dun think so.

A few months later, which is this month,March ’08..
We met again. But now, we are not talking to each other.

His dad and my mum have a hard time talking to each other because they see us not talking to each other.

They feel restless and my mum keep asking me why I don’t talk to him at all.

I said “ I don’t know..”

Until now, she still force me to talk to him. She demand me to call him. She pressed the number on the phone for me and kind of demand me to talk to him on the phone. She raised her voice when I say “NO..” and she will still want me to talk to him.

in the end, i still have to talk to him and the phone and it made me sound like some desperate girl. surprisingly,he didn’t even call me or sms me once.

My mother suddenly came and talk to me that she thinks Lan is scared of his father. “I think he get scolded by his father and brother for not calling you", she said to me personally.

I said to myself, “his brother scolded him? What for? His brother doesn’t even know me. this is definitely a set up. No wonder when we first met, Lan wasn’t really happy to see me..i gues he is also being forced to date with me.”

Gosh…we both are in the same situation. HaHa.. I guess he is also being forced to call me. his dad scolded him for not calling me and my mum scolded me for not calling him.

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She told me once before,” maybe you can be friends with him..who knows you might fall in love and get married to him in the future…”

Becoz of this sentence that she said, it has made me not to talk to him at all..

She set up a blind date without telling me and then now, talk about marriage!
What is this?!

well, i dun mind being friends with him but geting married...tat's like too fast for me

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But Hey..come on..i’m just 19 yrs old.. I want to find on my own..

But if she were to set up another blind date again, I think I will run away from home.

I am too young to deal with this ‘blind date’ thing… if I am 30 and still not married, I don’t mind going for a blind date but still I won’t comfortable…

Arghh!! Can someone give me a better suggestion to deal with this problem?...